Parenting, Education, and the Power of Presence: Insights from Mario and Courtney Lopez on the Flip Side Podcast
Welcome to back stage at GYTO Fest 2025, where Hope & Wade sat down with Mario and Courtney Lopez for a vibrant, laughter-filled, and deeply insightful conversation about education, parenting, and the art of balancing busy lives. This episode is a must-listen for parents, educators, and anyone passionate about supporting children’s growth in today’s ever-evolving world.
In this blog post, we’ll break down the main themes and actionable tips from the episode, diving deep into the nuances of modern parenting, the changing landscape of education, and the importance of being present for your children—no matter how packed your schedule may be. Whether you’re a teacher, a parent, or both, you’ll find encouragement, expert advice, and practical strategies to help you thrive.
1. Decoding Education: Making Sense of School Lingo
Key Takeaway:
Understanding educational jargon empowers parents to better support their children and communicate with teachers.
In the Episode:
Mario and Courtney Lopez kicked things off with a game called “Say That Again,” where they guessed the meanings of common school acronyms and terms. Their creative answers—like “Real Talented Individuals” for RTI—highlighted just how confusing school lingo can be for parents.
Actionable Advice:
Don’t Be Afraid to Ask: If you hear terms like RTI, PBIS, or “exit ticket” at a parent-teacher meeting, ask for clarification. Teachers appreciate engaged parents!
Learn the Basics:
RTI (Response to Intervention): A system to identify and support students who need extra help early on.
Anchor Chart: A visual reference in the classroom that outlines strategies or steps for students.
PBIS (Positive Behavior Intervention and Supports): A framework to encourage positive behavior in schools.
Exit Ticket: A quick activity at the end of a lesson to check student understanding.
Stay Curious: Education is full of evolving terms. Staying informed helps you advocate for your child.
Expert Insight:
The more you understand the language of education, the more confidently you can partner with teachers and support your child’s journey.
2. The Evolving Classroom: What Parents Need to Know
Key Takeaway:
Education is changing—curriculums, teaching methods, and even the skills emphasized are different from when most parents were in school.
In the Episode:
Mario and Courtney reflected on how math is taught differently now, and how cursive writing is no longer a staple. These changes can be surprising and sometimes challenging for parents trying to help with homework.
Actionable Advice:
Stay Informed: Attend curriculum nights or school workshops to learn about new teaching methods.
Embrace Change: Recognize that educational shifts are often based on research and designed to help students succeed in a modern world.
Ask for Resources: If you’re struggling to help your child with “new math” or other unfamiliar subjects, ask teachers for guides or recommended websites.
Expert Insight:
Being open to new approaches—and willing to learn alongside your child—models lifelong learning and adaptability.
3. Supporting Your Child’s Learning at Home
Key Takeaway:
Your involvement at home is crucial, even if you’re not an expert in every subject.
In the Episode:
The Lopezes shared how they use tools like Google and ChatGPT to help their kids with homework, and how they prioritize academics while balancing extracurriculars.
Actionable Advice:
Leverage Technology: Use online resources, educational apps, and AI tools to find explanations and practice problems.
Create a Homework Routine: Set aside dedicated time and a quiet space for schoolwork.
Prioritize Academics: While sports and arts are important, make sure schoolwork comes first.
Be a Cheerleader: Celebrate effort and progress, not just grades.
Expert Insight:
You don’t have to have all the answers. Your encouragement, structure, and willingness to learn together make a world of difference.
4. Balancing Busy Lives: The Power of Presence
Key Takeaway:
Quality time matters more than quantity. Being present—even in small moments—anchors your child’s sense of security and belonging.
In the Episode:
Despite their demanding careers, Mario and Courtney make it a priority to be present for their children—volunteering at school, attending events, and cherishing everyday moments.
Actionable Advice:
Volunteer When You Can: Even occasional involvement at school (field trips, art classes, dances) shows your child you care.
Create Rituals: Family dinners, bedtime stories, or weekend outings build connection.
Be Intentional: Put away devices and focus on your child during your time together.
Communicate Openly: Let your kids know you’re always there for them, even when life gets hectic.
Expert Insight:
Children remember the love and attention you give, not the number of hours you’re home. Consistency and presence are the true anchors.
5. Appreciating Teachers: Building Strong Home-School Partnerships
Key Takeaway:
Teachers are the backbone of our children’s education. Expressing gratitude and respect goes a long way.
In the Episode:
Mario and Courtney emphasized how much they value teachers, acknowledging the challenges educators face and the impact they have on families.
Actionable Advice:
Say Thank You: A simple note or email of appreciation can make a teacher’s day.
Support Classroom Needs: Volunteer, donate supplies, or participate in school events when possible.
Communicate Respectfully: Approach teachers as partners, not adversaries.
Advocate for Teachers: Support policies and initiatives that help teachers thrive.
Expert Insight:
A strong parent-teacher relationship benefits your child and helps create a positive school culture.
6. Rapid-Fire Reflections: Childhood, Discipline, and Family Fun
Key Takeaway:
Parenting styles and family memories shape our approach to education and discipline.
In the Episode:
The Lopezes shared stories about their first jobs, favorite childhood books, and playful banter about who’s the stricter parent. Courtney is described as “small but mighty,” while Mario jokes about being the disciplinarian.
Actionable Advice:
Share Your Stories: Talk to your kids about your own childhood experiences and lessons learned.
Balance Discipline with Love: Set clear expectations, but always lead with empathy and understanding.
Make Learning Fun: Incorporate games, books, and family activities that spark curiosity.
Expert Insight:
Children thrive when they feel connected, understood, and supported—both at home and at school.
7. Final Thoughts: Encouragement for Parents and Educators
Parenting and supporting education in today’s world isn’t easy—but it’s incredibly rewarding. As Mario and Courtney Lopez remind us, you don’t have to be perfect. What matters most is showing up, staying curious, and working together with teachers to help your child succeed.
Remember:
You are your child’s first and most important teacher.
Teachers are your allies—appreciate and support them.
Presence, love, and encouragement are the greatest gifts you can give.
Catch you on the Flipside!
